Self love is priority .
Compassionate people. There’s vultures that feed off of you . You attract them naturally because of your subtle energy . vulnerability is life; it’s nonresistance to what is and accepting; to flow with life’s events whether “good” or “bad”. Vulnerability is openness to new experiences . Now, remember that you deserve love & patience because when you’re vulnerable you tend to naturally get pulled into a negative state when something “bad” happens. You’re hurt, you’re disappointed. Remember that you’re love & deserve it .
Experience vulnerability in relationships.
At the end of the day, you can be selfless and vulnerable but there are some people that will only go a certain extent for your happiness in return . It’s not reciprocated . Happiness is within and only cultivated within . Never expect happiness from an outside source , because it’s only but an illusion. Howeverrrr, when love is in the equation, you mend & help in the growth of other’s happiness automatically . It’s what comes to manifest from it .
You’re going to get hurt, be let down/disappointed, or lonely. Don’t identify the emotions as negative and don’t identify with it. Flow and don’t resistance the ride of vulnerability . It brings wisdom & a lesson learned to remain loyal to your self love, first and foremost .
There are many people who will , at the end of the day , look out for themselves & you just need to know when to distance yourself from it . If someone isn’t loyal to your peace of mind cut it off . If it’s detrimental to your mental health tread to peace. Don’t lose your peace .
Relationships are complicated these days . Most are controlled by ego . Everyone has these labels and rules on how things should be . Compassion is hardly one of them . Understanding and the awareness of ego is rare . Only conditioning the relationship and disconnecting more.
Now I’m not a grouch, but just be cautious of your sacred space and mind . Be conscious of your body and how it’s being effected by these relationships . Be vulnerable but cultivate your love garden . Mend your spirit and love . Share your space and life moments with someone who understands your vulnerability, is compassionate to your peace of mind and is gentle with your love as they are theirs; one who is your co-gardener.
Love your spirit.
As long as you love your spirit and make sure that your ever lasting energy is peace , the outside expectations of love will wash off easily and you’ll begin to experience pure love manifesting around you.
Feed your body energy food to keep you Upful and bright . Soak in the sun every day and spend time around nature . Be aware of your breathing. Fill your lungs with the scent of the trees; the flowers when they bloom. Meditate , breathe and give your mind peace. Look in the mirror every morning and ensure your love is unconditional for you .
Life is a movie . Enjoy each moment .
Your love is not outside; it is deep within you. You can never lose it, and it cannot leave you. It is not dependent on some other body, some external form. In the stillness of your presence, you can feel your own formless and timeless reality as the unmanifested life that animates your physical form. You can then feel the same life deep within every other human and every other creature. You look beyond the veil of form and separation. This is the realization of oneness. This is love.” – Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now.
LOVE & BLESSINGS – CHAN